MY WORK, MY DREAMS

Let’s have a Talk

                In movies or in the days of the past young boys and men were to expect a talk from the Father of the girl or woman they wanted to date. In my house it’s me. Some people might say it’s not my place to put my nose into the love life of my sister but I say that my sister’s happiness is my business. Throughout my life I have gone through and suffered many pains o due to the foolishness of my youth to the point where death was a true possibility but all that cannot compare to the pain I feel when my sister is hurt. I would gladly suffer the pains of my past to keep on tear from washing away her smile. As her brother I want someone to look at my sister and see that she is a beautiful inside and out. I want a stand up guy to want to spend his life making my sister happy and I don’t think that is too much to ask for. Today is August 8^th in the year two thousand and four almost twenty-six years after the day my sister was born. Eight pounds and I can’t remember how many inches but that day and every day since until the day that I leave this world my sister is and has been beautiful. So I know I might be stepping over boundaries or infringing on her freedom and I admit that but it’s because I love her and I just want her to be happy. 

My mom wanted to know if the people we are both seeing right now since they do not get along would affect how my sister and are. I think she is scared that our relationship will suffer but it is impossibility. I love my sister with all of my heart and there is no force in this world including death that would change that. 

Just because you can.

It’s easy to cheat on your girlfriend and or spouse if you’re smart. You can sleep with whomever and how many ever woman your heart desires. You see when women are in love foolishly they trust us to keep it in our pants. When I am out with friends I admit there are beautiful women everywhere but when I see my baby, my heart smiles. When I look into her eyes and we are intertwined in bed and I wake up to her wrapped in my arms; I feel alive. I see my future and hers becoming one, our lives becoming one and from that I see our children. I see myself waking up next to her every morning and falling asleep with her every night. Some girl from a bar or the street can give me a night but my angel is giving me a lifetime of happiness and making my dreams come true every time she tells me she loves me. I admit to being an ass in the past because I was a boy chasing tail but now I am a man living with my dream. I have found the woman whom I want to spend my life with, the woman whom shall give me the family I have longed for and I want to give her and only her myself, my life and my love. I want you guys out there to think about the women in your lives and what they give to you, the feelings, the laughter and the joy. I want you to think about how you feel laying next to them each and every night and then think about someone else lying in your place. Just because you can cheat and get away with it doesn’t mean you should. Just because you can get some random ass doesn’t mean it worth risking your entire future, losing the love of your woman. Just think about that before you slip and break your woman’s heart, just because you can doesn’t mean you should.