Saint Rita of Cascia

The Life of Saint Rita
An attractive young girl of eighteen, who wanted to
be a nun, but whose parents forced her to marry a man who later was
murdered. A mother of two children for whose death she prayed; a
widowed mother who later became a nun; a nun for forty-four years who
bore on her forehead a mark of Our Lord’s passion; such was this
interesting woman! Someone who probably has experienced every problem
that we encounter and who knows just how we feel. Yes, this is our
patroness, Saint Rita.
In 1381, Antonio and Amata Mancini, both late in
life after years of waiting and praying, had a daughter. She grew to
be an attractive young lady popular with the prominent young men of
the city. To her elderly parents surprise, she stated that she wanted
to be a nun. This they could not allow and, through mild and sometimes
forceful persuasion, prevailed upon her to marry at the age of
eighteen. Her husband was kind and friendly outside the home; inside
he ridiculed and even beat her. For eighteen years she prayed for his
conversion. Finally he came and asked her forgiveness, went to church,
knelt before the priest in confession and asked God’s forgiveness.
The happiness of his wife was short lived, however;
a few months later he was found on a lonely road stabbed to death.
Even greater tragedy fell upon the young widow as she heard her sons
swear to avenge their father’s death. To God she prayed that, rather
than allow her sons to be murderers, He take them from her. The winter
was intense. The two sons, looking for their father’s murderer, became
ill, were brought back home. A priest was called and they died soon
after.
Many months later the widow applied to the
monastery. At least three times her petition was not accepted because
she was too old. Finally, returning to the monastery late at night
after all the doors had been locked, she opened them without a key
and, coming into the chapel before the Mother Superior and the whole
community, asked again to be admitted. They took this as a sign from
God and admitted her.
For forty-four years she lived a life of poverty,
chastity and obedience in the monastery. In her forehead appeared a
thorn like one in the crown of thorns of Our Lord. The intense pain
she accepted as penance for her sins.
At the age of 76, in the midst of winter, she lay
dying. From a nun kneeling by her bed she asked for a rose from the
monastery garden. The nun thought that Rita was delirious, but to
please her, she went to the garden and found roses blooming in the
snow. For that reason she is often pictured holding a rose.
Through the years people have turned to her when all
else seemed to fail. For this reason,
she is affectionately known as the "The Patroness of
Hopeless Cases"
Novena Prayer to St Rita of Cascia
Let all know when your prayers have been answered
O Holy Patroness of those in need, St. Rita,
whose pleadings before thy Divine Lord are almost
irresistible ,
who for thy lavishness in granting favors hast been
called the advocate of the hopeless and even of the impossible; St.
Rita so humble, so pure, so mortified,
so patient and of such compassionate love for thy
Crucified Jesus
that thou couldst obtain from him whatsoever thou
askest,
on account of which all confidently have recourse to
thee, expecting,
if not always relief, at least comfort; be
propitious to our petition,
showing thy power with God on behalf of the
suppliant; be lavish to us as thou hast been in so many wonderful
cases,
for the greater glory of God, for the spreading of
thine own devotion,
and for the consolation of those who trust in thee.
We promise, if our petition is granted, to glorify,
thee by making known thy favor,
to bless and sing thy praises forever. Relying upon
thy merits and power before the Sacred Heart of Jesus,
We pray: (here mention request) Obtain for us our
request By the singular merits of thy childhood
By thy perfect union with the Divine Will
By the heroic sufferings during thy married life
By the consolation thou didst experience at the
conversion of thy husband
By the sacrifice of thy children rather than see
them grievously offend God
By thy miraculous entrance into the convent
By thy severe penances and thrice daily bloody
scourgings,
By the suffering caused by the wound thou didst
receive from the thorn of thy crucified Savior,
By the divine love which consumed thy heart,
By that remarkable devotion to the Blessed
Sacrament, on which alone thou didst exist for four years,
By the happiness with which thou didst part from thy
trials to join thy Divine Spouse,
By the perfect example thou gavest to people of
every state of life.
Pray for us, O holy St. Rita, that we may be made
worthy of the promises of Christ.
Pray to St Rita and she will answer your prayers
Tell everyone once your prayers have been answered
SAINT RITA
The Saint of the Impossible
ST. RITA is well known throughout these Isles of
Faith. Scores of municipalities and barrios bear her name. The first
priest to set foot in the Philippines was Father Urdaneta, an
Augustinian Father, and St. Rita was an Augustinian Sister.
Hundreds of Churches and Chapels are dedicated to
this “Saint of the Impossible.” In a special way St. Rita Chapel,
Manila, was the work of St. Rita. When in 1917, it seemed that
difficulties were insurmountable Father McErlain, first director of
St. Rita's Hall, asked our Saint to perform the impossible and bring
to life a home for Catholic young men. In a short time, St. Rita Hall
and Chapel was in existence. The later has been the place of worship
for thousands of young students who have passed happy days there,
before the Blessed Sacrament and have had the great privilege of
assisting at Daily Mass and of studying within the very shadow of our
Hidden Guest. What heart secrets have the walls of this student
Chapel not heard? How many lives have been changed there, how many
firm resolution made?
BIRTH OF SAINT RITA
The parents of our saint were married many
years before a child was born to bless their union. Recalling the
example of the parents of Saint John the Baptist, they prayed for an
offspring and as the shadows of life deepened, God blessed them with
their first child in the year 1381.
Umbria a province in the center of Italy was
the scene of Rita's birth - a poor barrio indeed,” it would be termed
in these Islands.
The history of the period makes one believe
that while heresy, wars and disorders of various kinds were rife, the
birth of the saint compensated to God, at least in part, amidst
surroundings so void of religious devotions. Her name means “virtue
and grace.” Well did she measure up to this title.
INFANCY AND CHILDHOOD
As with most saints, Rita's infancy and
childhood were passed in the ordinary way though the little girl
showed that she had the material out of which remarkable characters
are moulded.
Her attraction were the Augustinian saints, St.
Augustine himself being her patron. Often did the young child pray to
this great sinner-convert saint for help. As Rita had been born to
parents late in life, she, too, had a special affection for St. John
the Baptist, the saint who preceeded Christ, announced His Coming and
baptized Jesus in the, river Jordan. As St. John spent his years in a
desert, fasting and contemplating, - than which there is no sweeter or
truer joy, - so Rita liked to be alone, for she enjoyed solitude more
than excursions and companionship.
Children of worth always have deep and genuine
affectionate love for their parents. Being unable to do great things,
they can only show filial devotion through their loving obedience, and
Rita did this: as she was the only child she resolved to make up for
other brothers and sisters; she would be obedient not only to commands
but also to the merest suggestions. She had not to be told; to read
the mind of her parents was enough, and she considered the same an
order.
With fidelity to the small things she prepared
herself for the greater. She spent her years in a poor home, in a
humble barrio as did Christ Jesus, obedient, doing the small things
exceptionally well. Such is the road that leads to sanctity.
MARRIAGE AND MOTHERHOOD
Not all saints are in the convent. Nor is it
necessary to take the vows of a religious to be pleasing to God. Many
of the greatest saints never entered the solitude of the cloister.
The calendar of the canonized is filled with men and women who spent
their years in the world, battling with opposition, doing their duty
well. The ranks of business, commercial endeavor, the various
professions, medical, legal teaching, - these have their heroes, their
heroines whose lives are best known to God.
Rita wished to become a Madre. But her parents
had other plans. What should she do? It is often difficult to make a
decision. Generally, a true vocation ought not to be sacrificed. “We
ought to obey God rather than man” and “he that loveth father or
mother more than Me is not worthy of Me.” These questions worried the
young girl who sought the cloister but she also wished to do the will
of her parents. The custom of the times was that a child must follow
the will of the Parents. There were abuses, it is true; men and women
were forced into the convent and priesthood as others were kept out.
It is not unkind to suggest that perhaps the parents of Rita
interfered with her vocation. In this very day, such a thing too often
happen.
At thirteen years of age, Rita married, -
unhappily. The name of her husband is not given. His deeds were
those of a man in whom respect for womanhood and common decency were
unknown. How many young women have bad the same experience? Now
measure too, the mental agony of Rita who wished to consecrate her
purity, her virginity to God and then to find that her parents had
arranged for a marriage with a man, certainly not kind, even
questionably decent.
But, the months and years wore on, and two
children were born. Days and weeks of trial passed and brutal agony
they were for the young girl who would have been a Sister. She was in
the school of suffering and she knew bow to bear her Cross. She was
being tried in the fire of adversity and she needed patience, courage
and determination.
Anybody might picture the scenes of such a
mother with such a husband. Insults, blows and curses were borne with
Christian resignation. And then, the worst of all! Her husband was
murdered! Rita forgave the murderers but her two sons were of another
mind. They would avenge the murder of their father. However, death
intervened and the two boys bent to revenge were called by the Angel
of Death before they could themselves be assassins.
What a life for a young girl who would have been
peaceful, happy and contented in the serenity of the cloister.
It is a sterling example of what often comes to
frustrated vocations. It is the reward that parents receive, at
times, for interfering with the grace of God. But, for Rita, it was
her Cross, it was her Calvary; it was the means God took to teach a
lesson and give to other mothers a patroness who had tasted the
bitterest cup of sorrow, a cruel husband and ungrateful children.
WIDOW
Her husband dead, her two sons called to give an
account of their lives, Rita, thirty-two years of age, was left alone.
Her parents had died and her eighteen year of married life had taken
the bloom of youth from her cheeks; but the years had taught her
invaluable lessons, thy had brought her closer to her model, Christ
Crucified.
NOVICE
Some communities of Sisters accept widows, some
do not. Rita wished to become an Augustinian “Madre” but permission
could not be obtained. She applied and was refused. She tried a
second, a third time. The story is told, that she prayed to St. John
the Baptist and while on her knees, her patron saint came to her, led
her through closed convent walls and brought her to the Chapel of the
Sisters. She was asked how she had passed through locked portals and
she related her experience. The Sisters could not now refuse. She
was accepted; she became a postulant, afterwards a novice.
CONVENT LIFE
Convent life is not a bed of roses. It is a
garden of chosen flowers, of souls who prefer the Garden of Olives and
the agony of Gethsemane. To be a true Sister, to follow the rules and
regulations, calls for heroic strength of character. A recent Pope
said that he would canonize immediately any Sister who obeyed exactly
all the rules of the convent; this simply means that perfect obedience
is the surest guarantee of sanctity.
Rita was now where she had longed to be. She
was close to God, she was close to the Blessed Sacrament; she was in
the company of other souls whose every breath being dedicated to Our
Lord.
For some twenty years, she was a Sister.
During the greater part of this time, she was forced to live alone, a
punishment that was a joy to her. The reason for her solitude was
that she had a wound in her forehead. It is said that while one day
at prayer, Our Lord allowed her to participate in His Agony; Christ
gave her a thorn from the crown of thorns with which His Sacred Head
bad been pierced.
Rita accepted the thorn which opened a wound in
her forehead. And when the wound became worse, when it began to
fester and give off a bad stench, the Mother Superior ordered Rita to
remain in her cell until the open sore would heal as the odor was too
offensive for the other Sisters. So for practically the remainder of
her life, Rita lived alone.
VIRTUES
Charity, purity, poverty, these were three
virtues that adorned the Saint's religious life in a conspicuous way.
“Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with thy whole heart, and with thy
whole soul and with thy whole mind.” This is the first and the
greatest commandment and the second is like this: “Thou shalt love thy
neighbor as thyself.” Charity is the beginning and end, not only of
the life of a nun, but also of an ordinary Christian.
“Sell what thou hast and give it to the poor
and come, follow Me.” This injunction of Our Lord to the rich young
man in the Gospel was Rita's slogan. She accepted it and embraced it.
And even behind convent walls, she found opportunities to practise the
spirit of poverty in details, the small things which when heroically
done make the mosaic of a life of holiness.
“Blessed are the, clean of hearts for they
shall see God” was not only part of the Sermon on the Mount. It was
the inspiration of this soul following her belated vocation who even
amid seeming serenity had to fight serious temptations against purity.
DEATH AND AFTERWARDS
Not as a “thief in the night” did death come to
our saint. She was prepared, fortified by the Last Sacraments, and
her soul, cleansed, and purified, went to its Judge to receive the
recompense promised to those who do the will of God here on earth.
St. Rita died May 22, 1452, at 77 years of age! Then she began to
live not only to the Sisters in the cloister who knew her but she
began anew her life for the countless thousands who have made her
their patroness and their guide.
Death brought her body to the tomb; it hurried
her soul to the celestial Court where she now enjoys the fruit of her
sufferings, prayers and sacrifice. It has brought St. Rita into close
companionship with people in every corner of the world, with Catholics
who have reason to be grateful to her for favors received and
petitions granted.
The Philippines has been blessed with her
intercession. Hundreds and thousands in these Islands have felt the
helping hand of the “Saint of the Impossible.”
Cures without number have been accredited to
her intercession. It seems that she has especially taken under her
protection young women, being mindful perhaps of her own unhappy
girlhood when but thirteen years of age she was married to a brutal
husband.
More important than physical cures have been
the spiritual helps she has so generously granted. She has showered
countless blessings on her devotees, on all who have sought her
protection and aid. On Palm Sunday, April 18th, 1900, she was
canonized in Rome. She became a saint in the full meaning of that
cherished word. “Saint of the Impossible,” she has been happy to
bless those who have sought her intercession and she will continue to
be the patroness and the helper of all who call upon her, who ask her
intercession and assistance.
Prayer to St. Rita
Dear Rita, model Wife and Widow, you yourself
suffered in a long illness showing patience out of love for God. Teach
us to pray as you did. Many invoke you for help, full of confidence in
your intercession. Deign to come now to our aid for the relief and
cure of (name of sufferer). To God, all things are possible; may this
healing give glory to the Lord. Amen.
Prayer to St. Rita
St. Rita, come to my aid! Faithful, loving wife and
mother, humble, prayerful
widow and nun, because of my need, answer my call.
St. Rita, come to my aid!
Beautiful rose born from the Savior's thorns, lead
me far from anger and hate;
guide my heart on peaceful paths with charity to
all. St. Rita, come to my aid!
Helper, healer, holy friend, hear my petition (make
request). To Christ take this
prayer, for He is my Lord, my God, my all, my hope
in despair, my strength when
afraid. St. Rita, come to my aid! St. Rita, answer
my call. Amen.
St. Rita: The Other Saint of the Impossible
By Maureen McKew
While St. Jude is best known as the saint of
impossible causes, St. Rita of Cascia has her own following. This
quiet woman, who offered up her own sufferings to unite herself to the
suffering Jesus, also is known to be a friend in heaven when all else
fails. Her legend has a twist: Some say that when she helps, she
occasionally asks for something in return.
Each year, on May 22, thousands of people from
around the world travel to Italy and converge upon Cascia, a small
town in Umbria. Their purpose: to pay homage to a woman who died more
than 500 years ago, an obscure woman who spent 40 years as an
Augustinian nun and was barely known outside her own little world.
What did Sister Rita do to earn canonization and centuries of
entreaties? Why is she often known as "the other" saint of impossible
causes?
She suffered much and did it quietly. She faced
family tragedies that are too familiar to modern society. Her husband
was murdered. Her children were threatened. She was caught in a
terrible family feud. Then, just as her life acquired a sense of peace
and order, she herself received what appeared to be an affliction
directly from God.
According to her biographer, Augustine Trape, Rita
(probably christened Margherita) Lotti was born in the year 1381 in
the small town of Roccaporena, not far from Cascia. Another
biographer, the Rev. Gervase Corcoran, O.S.A., indicates her birth
date as 1377.
She was the only child of an older couple, Antonia
Lotti and his wife, whose name was believed to be Amata. During these
years, Umbria was rife with family feuds and vendettas, so her parents
pledged Rita, at the age of 14, to marry a young man named Paul (or
possibly Ferdinand) Mancini. The actual marriage probably took place
four years later.
According to traditional accounts, her husband was
brutish; however, Father Corcoran and other recent biographers have
found no historical evidence for this or for another tale: that she
had wanted to become a nun in her youth but was forced to marry. She
and her husband had two sons, who names were said to be Giangiacoma
and Paolo.
Then the first tragedy struck. One evening, her
husband was knifed to death in a place called Colgiacone, as he was
returning home from Cascia. He might have been murdered as part of a
vendetta or perhaps was caught up in political unrest. Rita was left
with the fear that her young sons would be next or would die trying to
avenge their father. Neither happened, however; the boys died in their
teens, apparently from natural causes.
A new life
By about age 36, Rita was all alone. She found
solace in prayer and asked to be admitted to a community of
Augustinian nuns at the Convent of St. Mary Magdalene in Cascia. Her
request was denied. Father Corcoran in his biography suggests this
might have been due to the feuds that surrounded Rita's family and
perhaps even reached inside the convent walls to family members under
vows.
In order to win acceptance to the convent by
settling the feuds, she took the remarkable and probably dangerous
step of arranging a ceremony of reconciliation among the warring
families. It worked, and peace reigned long enough for her to be
accepted into the convent about the year 1407.
As a religious, Sister Rita offered much solace and
assistance to those who came to the convent for help. She also
ventured outside to visit people in their homes. This was probably the
beginning of her identification as someone who helped lost causes.
About 1432, a wound like a thorn appeared in her
forehead. She accepted her affliction as a participation in the
suffering of Jesus, who was crowned with thorns in a mockery of his
divine kingship. This wound never healed and caused her great pain. In
her last years, her sufferings grew and finally on May 22, 1447, she
died. She was about 70 years of age.
Almost immediately, reports circulated of miracles
attributed to her intercession. Interestingly, she was canonized only
recently, in 1900.
The patroness of the impossible
There are several stories connected with St. Rita
that might explain her reputation as a saint of impossible causes. As
a novice in the convent, she was given a task to show her obedience.
She was asked to water a dry stick. Under her care, it grew into a
vine. Another story concerns her desire to go on a pilgrimage to Rome.
Her superiors were reluctant to allow the journey because of her
unsightly, festering head wound. Mysteriously, the wound disappeared,
only to return when she completed her pilgrimage.
The third is perhaps the most famous story connected
with St. Rita. As she lay dying in January 1447, a relative visited
her. Rita made a startling request. She asked the visitor to bring her
a rose from the garden she had tended years before as a young wife and
mother. Thinking Rita's mind had failed, the relative went to the
garden and there she found one beautiful rose blooming in the midst of
the dead garden. She rushed back and gave it to the dying nun, who
passed it around to her companions so they might savor its fragrance.
The rose, like Rita herself, was a thing of beauty, but it carried
thorns.
Rita never wrote a great theological tract. She
didn't found a religious community. She was a quiet woman who suffered
greatly from the hatred and vindictiveness of others. Rather than
become bitter, she affected reconciliations between people and gave
them comfort.
PRAYER TO SAINT RITA
O powerful St. Rita, you are called the Saint of the
Impossible. In this time of need I come to you with confidence. You
know my trials, for you yourself were many times burdened in this
life. Come to my help, pray with me, intercede on my behalf before the
Father. I know that God has a most generous heart and that He is a
most loving Father. Join your prayers to mine and obtain for me the
grace and assistance I desire:
(here mention your request)
I promise to use this favor, when granted, to better
my life, to proclaim God's mercy, and to make you widely known and
loved. Amen
Saint Rita Shrine